It's not just you. Dating can be exhausting.

While there are more tools available to meet a potential partner (hello, dating apps!), that doesn't necessarily mean the process of dating and finding that special someone has become any easier.

If you're tired of being disappointed by dates and matches and feel yourself becoming more hopeless about finding the romantic love you're looking for, you may be experiencing dating burnout.

For many, the solution has been to delete the apps and come back to them later. But unplugging and replugging alone won't change much. What will make the difference is what you do to address the root cause of your dating fatigue while you're on a dating detox.

In this 12-week program, you'll learn how to overcome dating burnout, reconnect with yourself, and make future dating experiences better than your past ones.

Ready to get back out there with an open and hopeful heart?

This course is for you if...

  • You fear the relationship of your dreams is never going to happen for you.
  • You want to give up on dating because it's not fun anymore.
  • You've deleted and re-downloaded the dating apps multiple times throughout your single season.
  • You're exhausted by dates that go nowhere and feel like dating has become a chore.
  • You're tired of being disappointed by dates and matches and are starting to feel hopeless about finding romantic love.
  • You've been casually dating for years and keep getting disappointed by situationships.
  • You want to find your person but feel burned out by the endless swiping.
  • You want a healthy relationship but feel like you keep falling into similar dating patterns.
  • You often catch yourself talking negatively about dating.

Course Curriculum

  Welcome to Swiped Out
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  Dating Burnout: Understanding How You Got Here
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  Going Inward: Reconnecting With Yourself
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  Dating Again: Taking A Fresh New Approach To Dating
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  Your Dating Self Care Toolkit
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On demand trainings

This is a self-paced program designed to support, not overwhelm you. You can follow the program at the recommended pace, one training per day for 12 weeks, or dive into as many trainings as you'd like. With lifetime access, you can revisit any training at any time.

Evidence-based practices

This program was developed by wellness, mindfulness, and mental health experts. Each audio training is followed by a journal prompt to help you reflect on the learnings from the training and how it relates to your own experience.


Community support is such an important part of the mending journey. When you purchase this course, you'll gain lifetime access to The Menders Club community on Facebook so you can connect with other Menders.

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Mend offers support for the journey inward. We work with wellness, mindfulness, and mental health experts to develop all of the training content available in our programs.

The Mend App, dubbed the "personal trainer for heartbreak", has helped Menders feel better 58% faster after a breakup and was awarded Apple's Best of 2018 in the self care category.

Find more support for mending from heartbreak, burnout, and dating burnout at


What do I need to access the class?

Internet connection and a way to listen to audio trainings (headphones or your laptop/computer speakers).

When does the class begin?

Whenever you decide! This is a self-paced class that you can begin and end whenever you’re ready. You can come back and review trainings whenever you need.

Should I follow the program in order?

We certainly recommend you follow the program start to finish, but you’re also welcome to curate your own experience by listening to whichever training fits your day-to-day needs.

What’s the refund policy?

We don’t offer refunds on our program, so we recommend that you read through the program description material in detail to make sure this program will meet your needs.

When I purchase this program, will I be able to access it on the Mend iOS app?

No, our online programs are not accessible in the Mend App. These are separate products and offer a different user experience.


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